~warkah cinderella 116~ !!lazy!!

Dear Mr B that I love the most..
Assalammualaikum and hello to all readers..

Sudah 2 minggu berada di sem baru..Yerp, already in final semester..Currently, I'm too lazy to finish all my assignments..Just 4 subject + Projek Sarjana..But too lazy to read all journal and article..How I wish that I'm strong and excited as I'm in first semester before!

I need to re-arrange my schedule! Become a lazy person is not good for health! Maybe I need to make a cute time table for my self just to make sure that I will work harder using it.. Sebenarnya banyak keje tak siap lagi nih! agak stress utk sem yg terakhir ni..Semangat sudah hilang..Pemberi semangat jua sudah pergi..Nak cari pemberi semangat baru tp masih ku tak mampu..hohoho

This month my calendar is full of wedding invitations..Congratulations to all of you..My turn maybe this year too..ehem!! Please pray hard for me to get the best husband ever!! lalalala

Banyak sangat mengarut malam ni..Questionnaire ntah kemana..isnin kononnya nak tunjuk kat tuan haji...patutnya minggu ni balik dah boleh wat kajian rintis tp disebabkan malas habis ntah ke mana questionnaire tu..mama dah bising td..mama cakap patutnya sem akhir ni makin garing..bukan lemau jeee..gelak sangat dengar ayat mama..pembangunan kurikulum lagi..pengukuran lagi..kepimpinan lagi..I really need courage to finish all this..Tak sabarnya nak habis..tapi bercita-cita nak buat PHD..kalau yg sikit ni pon cam malas-malas cane nak wat PHD kan?? Tapi nak kawen dulu sebelum buat PHD..haha..gatai sangat dah ni!!

Dear Dealove Shafrina,

You must be very hardworking because this is your final semester. You must pass with flying colors. You must remember all your promise towards your mother. You must CHANGE! Change your thinking and enhance your skills especially in communication! Please do it now because time flies so fast!! Please start today!!

Dear Mr B,

I promised that starting today I will work harder and not feel lazy anymore! I will fulfill what I wish for! Getting the spirit start!! zzzzzzaaaaaaaaassssssssssss!!!!

with love

~warkah cinderella 106~ !!How To Forget Someone!!

Dear Mr B yang dikasihi..

I love U so much =)

Tajuk entry kali macam err macam...Ha ha ha ha ha =) Gelak dulu okeyh..Baru manis muka =) Mesti ramai kat luar sana yang tertanya-tanya macam mana nak lupakan orang lagi-lagi yang kita suka sangat kan?? Saya mengalami fasa untuk melupakan orang =) Ada baik dan buruknya kan?? Tapi time saya belajar psikologi dulu dalam nota tulis jangan paksa diri untuk melupakan nanti akan mengalami masalah lupaan paksaan..tak baik untuk otak katanya..ha ha ha ha..

Okay tips untuk melupakan nih saya cari di google..Dalam banyak-banyak yang saya google saya rasa kat SINI paling best =) Baiklah saya share la sket tips tu =)

Step 1

Cry out everything you have to cry about! When we get hurt, it's normal (and good) to cry. Don't ever think you're being weak for crying and don't feel embarrassed because of it! It's normal and it's good! When you cry, you let go of part of your anger and hurt so you can feel less heavy. You can lock yourself in a room, if you want to, and put on some sad music...but let yourself feel the pain and cry so you can let it go. The main thing here is: Get rid of the pain! Just let him go!

Step 2

Get busy! When you're trying to get someone out of your head, you need to put other things inside of it. In other words...get busy! It doesn't matter how, you just need to get distracted. Go to a movie, watch a play, travel. It doesn't matter what are you going to do--the important thing is to find something to do. Find a hobby, find something you enjoy doing, something to keep your mind busy. If your mind is busy, it doesn't have time or space to think about the person you're trying to forget.

Step 3

Spend some time with your friends. Friends are always great to have in this kind of situation! Friends can make you feel good about yourself and get you distracted very easily. They will certainly make you laugh and make you see that you're way more important than you think! The only warning is: Ask them not to talk about the person you're trying to forget. If they start bringing the topic up in every conversation, you won't be able to forget, and instead of making you laugh, they're going to make you cry. So be honest and ask them not to talk about it!

Step 4

Avoid the person! Try not to go to places you know you can meet that person. When you're trying to forget someone and you two keep seeing each other, it can be even harder to get over it. If you meet him/her somewhere, be polite, but find an excuse to go away as fast as you can! If you work or study with him/her and you can't avoid seeing him/her, just try not to look and not to talk too much. Just be gentle and keep busy all the time so you won't have excuses to look at him/her or to chat.

Step 5

Go out and see some different faces! Being at home gives you more time to think about the relationship, which makes the process of working through the end of that relationship even more difficult. So even if you're not feeling excited or you're in a bad mood, just put on your best clothes, best shoes, best smile, call some friends and go somewhere nice where you can dance, drink, listen to some music. And the most important: See some different faces! When you go out, you notice that the person you're trying to forget is not the only one who's got a perfect smile and an amazing voice...thank god, there are other interesting people in the world!

Step 6

Avoid every kind of romantic thing! If you're trying to forget someone, you'd better not watch romantic movies or listen to romantic songs...it makes you feel bad and you will certainly remember the person you're trying to forget. It doesn't matter if it's a song you love or if it's playing on the radio...just change the station or do something else. Put on some happy songs, dancing songs, watch some comedies, terror movies, whatever...you just need to avoid the romantic things for now!

Step 7

Take good care of yourself. Women tend to run for some kind of self-destruction when they're hurt. If we break up our perfect relationship, then we have no reason to get our nails done anymore and the only thing that gives us comfort is chocolate and sugar. That way, the only thing we do is to become less attractive and lessen our self-confidence. So if you're hurt, just try to use your pain for yourself instead of against you. Go to the gym, work out a lot, get your nails and hair done...do whatever you can so you can feel more pretty and confident!

Step 8

Accept the process! You can be really strong and it's still going to hurt. The process takes time and you have to accept that. You can't hope to forget in 2 days someone you loved for 2 years...and you can't pretend to be strong if you feel like crying. Just face your pain and accept that it's not easy and it's going to take some time. When you're patient with yourself and your situation, things tend to get easier...

Haa ada 8 step semuanya..ni simple kan? mula-mula cam susah nak buat..tp lama-lama okay je =) 

1st step tu sangat perlu sebab untuk buang semua rasa tak best dalam hati kita =) Tak kesah la berapa step pun, yang penting kalau nak lupakan orang mestilah datang dari diri kita sendiri..Orang tak ley nak paksa kita lupakan orang lain tapi kekuatan dalam hati kita je yang boleh paksa diri kita untuk lupakan seseorang tuuu =) stay positive as always =) Nak share satu lagu la untuk hari ni =)

*D'masiv - Apa Salahku*

WITH LOVE

~warkah cinderella 99~ !!falsafah hidup!!

Dear Mr B yang dikasihi.

Assalammualaikum dan salam sejahtera =)

Hari ni hari sabtu 23 jun 2012..Sekarang jam di meja study menunjukkan pukul 4.05a.m..Semangat study falsafah kononnya..Minggu depan 26 Jun 2012 bersamaan hari selasa ada exam falsafah..Dah beberapa hari mengadap buku falsafah..Dulu saya tak rajin belajar macam sekarang ni..Malam tadi waktu sungguh-sungguh study falsafah, tiba-tiba jantung saya berdegup kencang..Terasa sungguh berdebar-debar sewaktu study falsafah..Rase nervous tu sama macam rasa nervous nak presentation or nak mula perlawanan sukan dulu-dulu..Nervous sampai tahap nak muntah..Pastu rumate saya macam risau..Best thing ialah rumate saya siap bagi doa untuk hilang gemuruh..terharu sangat...Lepas rasa nervous hilang terus rumate saya ingatkan untuk siapkan laporan sempena program seminar hari tu..naseb da siap dan da send kat pengarah program..ngeh3..

Hari ni jugak saya macam homesick sangat-sangat..Rasa nak balik rumah je..tapi memandangkan paper owh sangat la berjiran kan so tak jadi balik rumah..tapi sedih sangat dasyat...Dulu time belajar kt usm tiap-tiap kali study week mesti balik..tapi kat sini lain..study week pon masih busy siapkan report-report..sungguh dasyat..Kenapa la hati ni saat-saat ni jugak nak homesick kan.ish3..*geleng-geleng kepala*

Selain tu saya wat jugak la keje-keje mengarut seperti mengedit gamba..setelah sekian lama meninggalkan dunia editing nih..Ni la hasilnya...jeng..jeng..jeng...

hasil editing yang tak seberapa. *warna pink tuuu*

Hari ni jugak saya rindu kat dia..ye dia..dia tu Mr Handsome tuuu..Saya tak tahu kenapa, walaupun dah gaduh dasyat-dasyat pun saya boleh suka kat dia lagi..ish3..*geleng-geleng kepala*.. Mr handsome oh Mr handsome, awak ada jampi apa-apa ke kat saya sampai saya tak boleh lupa kat awak ni?? Walaupun awak jual mahal sangat dengan saya kan mr handsome, saya tetap gembira sebab awak tetap je melayan saya yang gila-gila ni..walaupun saya tak boleh nak baca isi hati awak mr handsome saya tetap doa agar Allah lembutkan hati awak untuk terima saya...eceh!! fefeeling ombak rindu pulak~

Eh saya rasa saya macam nak tulis......... 

10 Things That I love About YOU!!

hahaha..tapi bukan hari ni la..saya akan tulis bila awak betul-betul ditakdirkan berjodohan dengan saya =)

eh..tajuk cam tak kena pulak dengan story line ni kan?? ngeh3...


Falsafah hidup saya

 "I'm only me and that's all I can be..No more no less don't second guess..You may not like me but that's okay because this is me and how I will stay"

Setiap orang ada hak masing-masing untuk suka atau tidak suka pada seseorang itu..Dalam hidup ini, tak semua orang akan suka dengan kita tapi Allah S.W.T menyuruh kita menyayangi sesama manusia. Oleh itu, buangkan rasa tinggi diri dan tanamlah sikap penyayang dan pemaaf dalam diri agar kita terus menyayangi dan memaafkan insan-insan disekeliling kita. Dan kita sebagai manusia haruslah belajar berusaha menerima setiap kekurangan dan kelebihan insan lain di sekeliling kita..

Ulasan ringkas dari dealove shafrina..continue study falsafah..ganbatte ne!! 

with love,  

~warkah cinderella 80~ !!Apabila Mata Yang Memandang!!

Dear Mr B..
Sudah lama tidak bertandang di sini..
Terlalu sibuk hinggakan tiada kesempatan untuk menulis..
Sekadar menjengah sahaja..
Terlalu banyak hendak dikongsi..
Tetapi masa terlalu mencemburui kita..

Apabila mata yang memandang..
Hati-hati kerana dunia terlalu luas untuk di pandang..

Setiap perbuatan pasti ada mata yang memandang..
Setiap perbuatan pasti mengundang cemburu di hati..
Setiap perbuatan pasti terusik di jiwa dan minda..

Oh dunia..
Terus tabah dan cekal untuk meneruskan perjuangan di dunia..
Belajarlah selagi mampu..
Belajarlah dari kehidupan untuk terus berjaya di dunia dan akhirat..
Terus mengejar setiap yang ada di dunia mahupun untuk kebaikan di sana..
Bersemangatlah wahai rakan!!
Terus kan berlari dan belajarlah dari kehidupan =)

~warkah cinderella 74~ !!bijak pandai!!

assalammualaikum semua pembaca2 dikasihi.. *macam ramai je yg baca blog ni kan
xlupa juge buat mr blog yg dicintai...

da lame xupdate blog kan..SEBAB???
dalam hidup semua nye bersebab.. susahkan  =)

aritu saye melawat blog "rosemawar".. kagum tgk tulesan die bley potong2 cmtu..
selama ni ade tgk kt blog org lain..tp xtaw nk tanye cmne...jd bile ros yg wat so cm xmalu sgt nk tanye...
bak kate pepatah dolu2 " siapa malu bertanya sesat jalan"...
bile da xnk sesat2 saye pon tanye la ngn rosemawar...

lebey kurang cmni la kan perbualan kami...(*kepada rosemawar..name tu mmg nama kita kan.. =P)

dahlia: eh mawar, cane nk wat tulesan yg ley potong2 tu...


mawar: kan ade dekat2 ngan bold tu..


dahlia: eh xde pon...


mawar: eh, kt aku ade je...


dahlia: eh nape erk? (mencari sebab nape xde cm mawar)


mawar: jap2 ak tengok...


dahlia: eh2, aku gune old editor la...


mawar: owh patut la...

begitulah kesahnye...

hahaha..rase cm klaka pown ade....tapi kan sebenarnye bertanya tu mmg bagus kan...
sebab tu la org yg ska bertanye tu bijak pandai...kagum jugak ngn bijak2 pandai di luar sane...

pendapat saye la kan..kalo xsetuju xpe sbb laen orang laen fikirannya..kalo da sama mcm xbest plak kan =)
bagus gak kan kite bace blog org..kita blaja dari pengalaman2 org..de jugak blogger2 yg cerdik IT sanggup berkongsi ilmu berkenaan IT nih...*struktur ayat saye bagus sgt hahahaha

saye suke bace blog berunsur pengalaman..ssh nak dpt blaja kt universiti..eh2 kt skola dulu la... =P
heee..kalo rase2 nk upgrade sket ilmu dlm bidang IT google je kan..nanti kua la name2 blog yg kite bley refer masalah kita...kalo rase nak bergosip ley la bace blog2 gosip kan...atau nak tambah ilmu2 yg bagus wat diri sendiri bley la refer blog2 yg berkongsi ilmu dunia & akhirat...

senang kata..zaman skrg sgt mudah kan..bile kite bace blog2 org laen sume pown membuka ruang minda kita utk berfikir..semua org berfikir dgn cara maseng2 dan mencari sebab2 utk diri maseng2..dan semua org dilahirkan dengan kepandaian maseng2..jadi bersyukur la dgn kepandaian maseng2..jgn memandang rendah dengan diri sendiri..teruskan berusaha dan berjaya...

okeyhlah..buat bijak pandai semua..yakinlah dengan diri sendiri..jika anda merasai kegagalan teruskan berusaha mencari sebab utk berjaya..jangan jadikan sebab kegagalan itu utk tidak berjaya pada masa hadapan...bak kata pepatah sesal dahulu pendapatan sesal kemudian tidak berguna...heee..rase2 cm xde kene mengena je pepatah tu tp xpela...cm seronok lak tulis pepatah...

sehingga berjumpa lagi di masa hadapan =)


saya sayang kamu semua =)

~warkah cinderella 68~ !!Journey of Life!!

Journey of Life

Life is not a destination but a journey of searching for meaning, understanding, and ultimately happiness. We do not necessarily characterize our dreams as journeys because there is a sense in our waking journey that sometimes affected by our most powerful or memorable dreams. Many dreams include needing to travel from A to Z before progress is made to complete the dream task. During this travelling, we must be brave enough to take the challenges. The challenges may be uncooperative or contrary. The travelling machines may be magically powerful and may be unreliable. Sometimes, we are simply walking across a field, down a road, up a hill, through the forest, or along the cliffs on our journey. The environment around us along the way can be familiar, strange, friendly, anxiety-ridden and a host of other possibilities. The purpose of travelling and companion along the way can be significant.

The journey is a symbol for trying to find what is needed to bring life into equilibrium. This is the task of finding the best place in the universe. It could be characterized as the archetypal search for the most authentic self. In either of these metaphors, there is the idea that our souls tend to be a little restless at times. The journey is the task of finding out what the soul needs to quiet that restlessness. In waking life, this is played out by the need change feeling by oneself that crops up every now and then. The process of individuating oneself from the expectations and influences of others conjures feelings along these lines. In dreaming, we often travel alone and leaving others behind by choice or necessity to find our next task is. Along the way, who we meet and what we partake in may reveal much about conscious self which where our individual struggle is in the waking. We may encounter strangers with whom there is an adversarial relationship or a romantic love one, mystical strangers who unlock unknown powers within us or withdraw particular powers from us. In either case, the journey is our personal goal, and how we experience others during the process says much about relationships of our waking world. In journey of life, we will going to have more knowing me - knowing you session where you can learn to understand people better.

Quotes : " All of life is a journey which paths we take, what we look back on, and what we look forward to is up to us. We determine our destination, what kind of road we will take to get there, and how happy we are when we get there."